love is patient. love is kind. love does not envy or boast. it is not arrogant or rude. it does not insist on its own way. it is not irritable or resentful. it does not rejoice at wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth. love bears all things, hopes all things, endures all things. love never ends (1 Corinthians 13:4-8).

Selfishness gives up easily and is unkind. it envies and brags. it is haughty and rude. it insists on its own way. it is constantly irritable and resentful. it rejoices at wrongdoing — it hides the truth. selfishness will drop others when it gets hurt, thinks the worst of others, gives up on others who aren’t convenient. Selfishness is a flash in the pan, common.